Osmosis and in the name of business

So a couple of nights ago sitting around the dining room table with Jules Crew and Dahunter before going to bed I jumped into one of there always interesting and hi level conversations based around dating incredibly hot women and a lot of the inner game that makes it possible. The conversation was based around an aloofness, but that doesn't do the topic justice. We were talking about being non-result oriented v 2.0. Taking the idea and putting it as deep into ourselves as we can, being non-reactive and also just not giving a fuck of how the outcome was. And the freedom that comes along with it.

These guys weren't just talking basics they were getting down to affirmations of self satisfaction and being fulfilled with there lives. With this conversation in the back of my mind along with 6 beers and a shot of patron and then a jager bomb (big ups to Quantum , Ozzie and my boy Oleg for a great night and a hand full o drinks) I was ready to do a little talking. Being out with my sales team and one of our vendors for a little wine and dine I was put on deck. Couple of the guys noticed 3 girls in a both I couldn't see them from where I was sitting, from what we I could make out she was well equipped to feeding babies :). My buddy from my team says, "hey go get these girls over here." I walk over and jump right into it. I started off with talking about 2 of them double fisting (2 drinks per person) and jumped right in little banter and there were alright but nothing to bring back to the table. One of the seasoned Vendors came over and I introduced him, he noticed that they looked better from a distance and we moved on after a little more chit chat. The one alpha of the group maybe a 7.5 was totally into me and it would've been an easy close but aren't they all (no.. no there not, I mean yes I'm awesome......).

Got back to the table the four of us were sitting there drinking our beers, then a cute waitress sat behind us (with a little rail in between the two tables/sections) the guys of the group automatically start showering her with props and put all there attention on her. I'm sitting there with my back to her trying to get the focus of the group, then one of the younger vendors says to me "man don't u hate it when they think there hot shit and to good" I go not really all you have to do is neg them a little and knock em down a notch or two and bring them back to reality.

I preceded to do just what I preached (not a common occurrence , becoming more frequent) the conversation at the point was for us 3 guys to go to Blue Note and check out some of the Chicago soul as these other guys were from Boston. There saying "i'll go if she goes" she's all like whatever, I turn to her as I start my sentence "she defiantly doesn't do anything exciting or having to relate to culture" and then again turn my back to her. Well she put her fork down and and I could feel her eyes on the back of my head and responded with "Like what do you that is so exciting and interesting?!!" As I smoothly turn again and look her in the eyes and respond with
"well I race cars and motorcycles and occasionally play poker for thousands of dollars, I don't know if that's exciting or not?"

She response with "oh you know poker would you teach me?

Can you be ruthless and patient? I ask

Oh yeah no problem.

Well I don't know you might be a lost cause, but I might give you a shot, teach you a couple new things. Here put your number in my iphone.

Proceeded to go out for a smoke, small talk a business man, say a couple words of wisdom and a little light banter. The quote of that moment was. Waking up and going to sleep everyday and doing what you want in the middle is what success is. He then bought me a jager bomb and then I proceeded back to the group and that was the end of the night.

All for work, made some new contacts, will break into some new accounts, and maybe i'll call that hot (9) Lithuanian girl sometime if I feel the need.

Confidence and not giving a fuck of the outcome is incredibly deadly.